How To Work From Home When You Have Kids


Working from home with young children can feel like the hardest thing in the world – a parent has to do two jobs – the one they’re being paid for and the one they’re not. And they have to do them both at the same time to a ‘good enough’ standard. A mother will still be a mother even if they park the kids in front of the television all day (albeit a stressed out and guilty-feeling one), but neglect a paid job and they could lose it…so what are the main things to remember when a parent’s workplace is also their home?

Learn to be flexible

There will come a point in the day when there is an urgent email that needs a response, or a phone call that has to be made before a certain time – this will inevitably coincide with a nappy that needs to be changed, a mega-tantrum, a request for a snack or a tired toddler who needs to be put down for a nap. It will take time, but work at home parents learn to just fit things in around each other, somehow.

But at the same time have a schedule

It can help to have set times of the day where work is the priority and vice versa – something like a dedicated work morning, and an afternoon playing and doing child-friendly activities. It’s ok to say to the children that “Mummy will be working for an hour while you play by yourselves. Then we can go to the park.” Or, for parents whose children still have a nap, there could be a wonderfully quiet chunk of time after lunch where lots of work can get done.

Image  www bengkuluonline cmConsider using childcare

Some parents really couldn’t work from home without some sort of childcare – this can be especially true for tiny toddlers, who really can’t be left alone for a moment. A nanny for a couple of hours a day, or a morning or two per week at a nursery can be invaluable.

Enjoy it!

Sure, it can be really stressful working from home when you have young children, but there are some great perks. Work-at-home parents can usually collect their children from school, or take their children to doctor’s appointments or other things that have to be done in working hours… and they get to stop for a play-break, or can got to work in the pyjamas if they fancy it. It can also be wonderful to have the opportunity to spend time with your children while also making some money and, although they may be too young to understand, it can be a good way to show children the importance of working and give a parent another identity rather than ‘just’ Mum or Dad.

About Author

Olivia Spencer is a writer and researcher living in London with her husband and two children. Previously a Philosophy graduate and chartered accountant, Olivia now blogs for the Huffington Post and writes for other sites and magazines with a special interest in parenting and mental health. She has written a book about postnatal depression in dads - Sad Dad: An Exploration of Postnatal Depression in Fathers (Free Association Books, Sept 2014).

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